Have you forgave to other person?

After a terrible relationship or a breakup, people broke completely with the pain and the hurt. For some people, it is not easy to move on from the relationship they were in. Then they start to test different things to diverse their mind. Some got succeeded and some did not.

All the people who broke and hurt went through mixed emotions like anger, forgiveness, love, hurt, broken, and many more.

If you forgive a person and you hang on to the anger the pain and the hurt and you say, you forgave the other person then you don’t understand what forgiveness really is. Forgiveness is not for the other person, it is for us.

When you try to engage in a new relationship to just diverse your mind, then it is not a good choice because until you heal from what you have been going through, how can you participate honestly with another person. which also means that you will be going to do the same thing that others did to you.

In my opinion, anger is necessary but in the right direction which heals you permanently. Put your anger into your growth or in other words put your anger for construction, not for destruction.

Don’t expect anything from anyone

Jeevan Mein Cigratte, Sharaab Aur Jua

जीवन में सिगरेट ,शराब, और जुआ से भी पहले छोड़ने लायक कुछ है,
तो वह है दूसरों से उम्मीद..

We expect things from the people whoever close to us or we love them and trust them. I don’t remember that I expect things from anyone else than my wife. Because I love & trust her the most. And that hurt a lot that time when I had expectations from her. We already separated 5 years ago. My heart still has goosebumps for her. The only thing that has changed is expectation.

One of the lessons I learned from my experience is Don’t expect anything from anyone. When you help someone, give kindness, give time or anything else don’t expect it in return. Eventually, your Karma will reward you in any way.

Keep in mind that your hurt, pain, disappointments, and whatsoever would be easier if you didn’t expect something back from someone.