Love is patient, not a deal

Love is patient, not a deal

प्रेम सब्र हैं, सौदा नहीं,
इसलिए हर किसी से होता नहीं..!❤️

Love is patient, not a deal,
That’s why it doesn’t happen to everyone..!❤️

I have been patient for the last 5 years with just one hope that if I am sacrificing my love, my love will be happy forever. My parents want me to find a girl and marry again but how would I tell them that my love is only for one person who is already gone.

Open letter to my dear Pooja

Dear Pooja,
You will always be the closest person to my heart. Sorry, I am still calling you wifey. From day one when I saw your photo, you are always part of my prayers. I always wanted my life with you always, remember that. Not a single day I could imagine without hearing your voice or seeing you. I always put you ahead of me in priority.

In these four and half years, I died every single day. I almost cried daily when I have thought about you in my mind. I have tried my best to get you back and to get you back I spent a lot of time. I want to admit that it was my mistake that I was trying you back because I was thinking about myself that how would I live without you. I had to understand that you have your life too and you have your dreams too. I tried to change myself and tried almost everything to fix our issues but I did never get your support. I was alone during that time. You were with your mind and I was with my heart.

I realized that it is hard for you to live with me but still I was trying to get back you. Sorry, I become selfish. Then I decided to let you go for your happiness, for your dreams, for your life. I don’t want to be a burden on your life. It was a very hard decision for me and I was aware that it will change our lives. Still, I thought if everything goes like that, no one will be happy and you would not believe but your happiness matters to me most.

I have a complaint with you that you never support me, I had dreams for you, for us. Like I always gave you chances after chances of your lies, you never gave me those chances.

From day one, I knew that you were lying to me still I trusted you and backed you and stand by your side. I was looking for some kind of support from you. But it is okay now. You chose your own way with your new life partner. Dedicate yourself to him. And then see the magic.

And don’t be afraid that I will spoil your life by telling your lies to your hubby. Revenge is not in my nature. I just want to see you happy, with me or without me. Because I LOVE YOU, dear.

Who suffered most in a breakup, boy or girl?

A few days back, me and my friend having a conversation about one of our common friend’s breakup stories. In that story, there is a question raised that who suffered most in the breakup, boy or girl. All have their own side to view this question but in my perspective, either of boy or girl can suffer the most. It is not related to gender specific.

I strongly believe that sometimes one has to pay the extra cost and bear all the pain it can be either boy or girl. One who is attached more to their partner will suffer the most.

I’m a married man with a divorce. In my case, I am still paying costs, still bearing all the pain as she already moved on and get married again in no time after our divorce. My family always tries to convince me that I should get married soon. But they don’t know where I am standing right now. I am still standing where she left me.

Sometimes I thought that I should get married then I get another thought how about if the same thing happens again. And the hidden truth is she is still left in me. I am still living with her not physically but emotionally.

I have a strong belief in God so I already forgive her. I am strongly attached to her because she is my first love and my first love is always so special. I would prefer to bear all the pain alone because I want to see her happy. I can pay any cost for her happiness.

But the conclusion about the question we raised in our conversation is that boys take time to overcome this breakup trauma and girl easily move on.